When I read this it made me think of my sister Sue, who I have written about before but since it is her birthday today, she is turning 44 I thought I would write about her again.
Sue seems to me to worry about what others think of her and her decisions in life more then what is good for one. On our journey thru life we all will have times when we will wonder what others think that is normal but with Sue she seems to at times really feel she needs the approval of others in order to be happy.
She will at times dwell on the past, worrying about past mistakes, worrying she will make the same mistake again all this has done is make her look older then her years.
As I have mentioned before I am not a worrier, I like that my parents love Tim like he is a son but if any member of my family was to have a problem with him then it would be their problem it would in no way change how I feel about him or them. Yes you read that right it would not change how I feel about them because they are allowed to have their own opinion about things including Tim. Maybe this is because I know my husband better then anyone else and I love him heaps more then words can express.
But this post is about Sue not me so let’s go back to her, as I have may have mentioned she is a bloody strong woman because she hasn’t had the easiest life and yeah most of the mistakes she made herself but that doesn’t change the fact that her life has been hardish.
Sometimes she has implied she is not happy with her life but there is nothing anyone else can do about that, she has times when she feels why do I bother to get out of bed. I can’t say I really understand, it is like I do understand but I don’t because I don’t have time to stay in bed. I have children and grandchildren who need me to do stuff for them along with all my online friends.
I do feel at times that if she was to get up and dressed and did stuff she might feel happier, ok I get that she has no car but she does have working legs so she can get around maybe if she was to get up and help mum with the housework every day she wouldn’t feel so down and miserable all the time.
I feel like can be to short too be miserable so get up, dress and do stuff………
Sue has 4 wonderful children and 4 wonderful grandchildren and she always says she misses them and doesn’t see them enough but sometimes sis you have to make an effort to see them.