Tim use to be a lot more carefree and he enjoyed life more when he was younger now days he is so uptight and stresses over so many things and this bothers me, I loved the young Tim so much more in some ways then I do the man he is now.
I don’t know why he is so uptight or why he lets things get to him as much as he does, if I ask him why he is stressing over something he often will not be able to give an answer because he really has no idea why his stressing over something.
I have often said to him does it really matter, will it matter tomorrow or a week from now if the answer is NO then why are you stressing over it or worrying about it……………………
I think this is part of the reason he can be narcissistic at times, he doesn’t think he is he just doesn’t see it. In fact he things he is the opposite and that he is very generous which he can be at times very generous but he can also be narcissistic and I wish he would just see himself how others see him.
I love him always have always will but sometimes he is a right pain and so bloody difficult to live with but then I guess the same could be said about me………………….lol
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Maybe it’s male menopause or something?
Maybe but I will go with him just being a dick at times…………..lol
Ain’t that the truth about all of us?
“I love him always have always will but sometimes he is a right pain and so bloody difficult to live with but then I guess the same could be said about me…”
Yeah I think most of us who live with someone they love may feel the same way